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7 Simple Routines that Create Huge Impact

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Wouldn’t it be great to create small habits that can help turn your life around?

Many people have heard about how important it is to have a morning routine. A good morning routine can set you up for a successful day. 

Having a routine produces a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. People who have a routine are more likely to feel motivated because they know what they need to do to reach their goals. This motivation leads them to do better in all aspects of their lives, as well as making them more productive.

Running through your daily routine will help you build discipline and self-control, which are two key ingredients for success in life. When you implement these simple and small habits, you have the potential to be more successful with everything that you do.

The following 7 simple routines are a few examples of routines that have had a huge impact on the people who follow them:

1.  Setting goals
Setting goals is one of the single most powerful habits you can create. Think of different areas of your life that could use a boost and create goals that will address them. I recommend a process I call TOP THREE. First, identify your top 3 goals; these are long-term goals for a month, a quarter, year, or beyond. Now, break the goals into milestone markers that can be used for celebrations. These milestones should be recorded on your calendar. The next step is to identify the top 3 things that must be completed to make progress towards accomplishing your TOP THREE goals. I've written other blogs about using Kaizen and the TOP THREE and also include them in my updated book  A House With Four Rooms: A Guide for Intentional Living with Physical, Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Wellbeing.

                                                              

2.  Declutter
It is best to keep every area you live or work in tidy. Unfortunately, this doesn’t happen for many of us. We are often too busy to clean all the time. At the very least, strive to keep the areas you spend the most time clutter-free. The philosophy of the Indian Proverb A House With Four Rooms is to do something daily for your physical wellbeing. Most people immediately think of their health; however, your physical space must also be attended to each day for complete wellbeing.

3. Start Meditation
The key to meditation is doing it consistently for short periods of time. A time commitment of several hours is not needed. You’ll still get the benefits as long as you commit to spending at least a few minutes meditating each day. This practice is fantastic for "airing" your emotional and spiritual rooms. You can learn more about the philosophy of A House With Four Rooms in other blog posts in Stepping Stones from A Pilgrimage to Self and from my book.

                                                                  

4. Be More Positive
The world is a negative place, and it’s easy to revert to negative thinking. The news and the internet are flooded with ideas that will keep you in the negative space. By writing down positive thoughts every day, you reframe your mind to think in this manner. A wonderful challenge comes from Living in a Complaint Free World: put a bracelet on your arm and each time you find yourself whining or complaining, switch the bracelet to your other arm. The challenge is to go 30 days without changing the bracelet from your chosen arm. Give it a try!

5. Give Other People Genuine Compliments
You will be amazed at how far this will go in boosting someone’s self-esteem. But, it does more than that. In many cases, we have to depend on others. Keeping harmonious relationships with others will go a long way in making this happen.

6. Start a Sleep Routine
If you are someone who doesn’t sleep well at night, it may be because you don’t have a good routine. You should strive to get up and go to bed at the same time every day. When you do this, you are resetting your body’s natural “clock” to help you get better sleep. Studies have shown that having a good sleep routine improves your health and overall wellbeing.

7. Commit to Learning
You can choose anything you are interested in and then look for training centered around that skill. Look for videos on YouTube to get you started. But, as you progress, try formal instruction available on websites like edx.org, or Udemy.com. You can also join programs and groups to continue a goal of lifelong learning. A daily visit to your mental room can include reading, practicing a new skill or hobby, having a deep and thoughtful conversation, or stretching your knowledge in some way.

Imagine if you made a commitment to living an Intentional Life by including daily practice and routines that allow you to grow, experience more joy, and feel more confident. 

I invite you to learn more with A House With Four Rooms: A Guide for Intentional Living with Physical, Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Wellbeing available from Amazon. Download your book, grab a notebook and pen, then complete the journal exercises that will help you discover, design, and develop your Intentional Life.

Until next time,

Lisa

The life philosophy of A House With Four Rooms suggests thinking of yourself as being four rooms: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual rooms. It advocates for doing something daily for your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.

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