What Is Self-Care?

Self-care is the act of taking care of yourself. It is doing exactly what you need to do to feel the best all around. This includes mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Each person has their own way to give themselves self-care. This can be anything from quitting your exhausting job, to getting your hair done, or ensuring you have time to read each evening before bed. This is what we refer to "air" out your four rooms: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual rooms.

Taking care of yourself should not be overlooked. There are many benefits that result from a self-care routine. If you are not taking care of yourself, eventually it can lead to overwhelming stress, lack of confidence, less productivity at work, and even cause deteriorating relationships with family and friends.

To really understand self-care, you need to understand yourself first. Ask yourself these questions to gain some clarity.

• What are the things I need to do to feel complete?
• What activities help me relieve stress?
• Is there anything I can eliminate from my daily schedule that is preventing me from taking care of myself?
• Am I happy with my exercise routine and am I eating healthy?

The way you answer these questions determines your self-care needs. Once you have defined your needs, all you need to do now is to add it to your schedule and do them to reap the benefits.

Self-care is extremely beneficial for optimal health. And according to the Indian Proverb, we're not complete if we don't visit each of our four rooms every single day. It is essential. Let’s look at a few of the amazing benefits you’ll experience over time.

• Increased Positivity – Adding these activities to your schedule will give you something to look forward to. Now you will no longer be thinking about how bad your day is and only be looking forward to reading that book in total silence or getting your nails done after work.
• Increased Self-Confidence – Your needs are now a top priority and that is a good thing. Self-confidence will naturally increase because you are simply doing the things that make you feel good.
• Improved Immunity – Self-care allows you to give your body a break from stress, anxiety and emotional trauma which increases your immunity. Stress and depression can overload your mind and body which is crucial to reduce as much as possible.
• Better Relationships – The more your needs are met the better your relationships will be with other people. When you are feeling down about yourself and don't feel important chances are that’s what you are putting onto others.
• Higher Productivity – All the benefits that have been stated above help with increased productivity at work and at home. Less stress, higher immunity, and higher self-confidence all help to boost productivity.

Remember, self-care is all about you as an individual. So, what you need to do to take care of yourself won't be the same as your spouse, friends, and family. After this routine is put in place, you will notice a significant change in your health and overall well-being.

The Indian Proverb encourages us to "air" out each of oour four rooms each day; it even suggests that we don't have to spend a lot of time in any one room, but we must go into each of the four rooms every single day...even to just "air" it out.

How are you "airing" out your four rooms? Are you making yourself a priority? 

I hope you'll share some of your common self-care practices with us. How do you "air" out your four rooms? In what ways do you practice self-care?

I look forward to hearing from you!

Cheers!

Lisa

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