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Pivot Away From a Poverty Mindset

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Pivot Away From a Poverty Mindset

 A poverty mindset is one of lack. I've touched upon this idea already...it's when you are focused on what's missing in your life, rather than on your good fortune and the possibilities that exist. This type of thinking can manifest in a bunch of different ways. It happens when you don't feel like there's enough, you'll never get ahead, you don't deserve more, or that taking a risk is dangerous.

Essentially, living in this state involves limitations. When you think this way, you begin to live in this same manner. The key to finding and embracing abundance is getting out of a poverty mindset. It's time for a pivot...follow these tips to get started.

Watch Your Language

This is an important thing to keep in mind. What you tell yourself tends to become your reality, so be careful with your words. Take note when you catch yourself saying something like, "I'll never be able to afford that." These types of messages can become self-fulfilling prophecies. Instead, reframe the message by turning it into something more positive and realistic. Perhaps consider reminding yourself by posting positive affirmations. Be positive with your words, thoughts, and actions.

Be Open to New Experiences

It's easy to find yourself in a rut, especially if you are not mindful of your daily practices. If you're bored with life and feeling stuck, it's unlikely you'll find yourself in a place of abundance. Instead, try to shake things up a bit by trying something new you've always wanted to do...take that class, join that meetup group, and purchase a ticket to your next adventure. Even a small change in your environment or circumstance can make a huge difference. Giving a new restaurant a try might lead to a shift in mindset, or heading out for a picnic by the lake could give you just the peaceful perspective you've been craving. You can go it alone, or better yet, invite a new friend to join you.

 Avoid Comparison and Competition

 One of the biggest contributors to a poverty mindset is comparing yourself to others. Just because someone else is able to take an exotic vacation doesn't mean your life is any less full or meaningful. Rather than feeling jealous or sad, try to simply wish others well in their experiences; be happy for them. Then return to being grateful for the good things you have in your life...take the time to write in your gratitude journal. Acknowledge your abundance, opportunities, and blessings.

It's even possible to use the experiences of others to motivate you. For instance, try to figure out what it is about your friend's vacation that has led you to feel a sense of lack. Then use that insight to push yourself to obtain what it is you seek. Maybe you can't afford a major getaway, but that weekend trip to the lake could suffice.

These are just a few ideas to get you started on erasing your poverty mindset. It's really not that hard to change your thinking. Once you start, you'll start seeing things in a whole new light that can open up a world of possibilities. As my mentor, Dr. Wayne Dyer used to say, "Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change."

Until next time...

Cheers!

Lisa

The life philosophy of A House With Four Rooms suggests thinking of yourself as being four rooms: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual rooms. It advocates for doing something daily for your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.

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