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Getting Out of a Poverty Mindset

Getting Out of a Poverty Mindset

A poverty mindset is one of lack. I've touched upon this idea already in past posts. It's when you are focused on what's missing in your life, rather than on your good fortune and the possibilities that exist. This type of thinking can manifest in a bunch of different ways. It happens when you don't feel like there's enough, you'll never get ahead, you don't deserve more, or that taking a risk is dangerous. Essentially, living in this state involves limitations. When you think this way, you begin to live in this same manner. The key to finding and embracing abundance is getting out of a poverty mindset. Follow these tips to get started.

Watch Your Language

This is an important thing to keep in mind. What you tell yourself tends to become your reality. Be careful with your words. Take note when you catch yourself saying something like, "I'll never be able to afford that." These types of messages can become self-fulfilling prophecies. Instead, reframe the message by turning it into something more positive and realistic. Perhaps consider reminding yourself that a promotion is possible in your future, which could lead to more opportunities and options for your life. Be positive with your words.

Even when paying a bill, say a quick gratitude affirmation by giving thanks for the ability to pay and give thanks for the service.

Be Open to New Experiences

It's easy to find yourself in a rut. If you're bored with life and feeling stuck, it's unlikely you'll find yourself in a place of abundance. Instead, try to shake things up a bit. Try something new you've always wanted to do. Even a small change in environment or circumstance can make a difference. Giving a new restaurant a try might lead to a shift in mindset, or heading out for a picnic by the lake could give you just the peaceful perspective you've been craving.

Take some time to get out of your "comfort zone" and follow your heart's desire. Be open to learning and doing new things, having fun, and being happy.

Avoid Comparison and Competition

One of the biggest contributors to a poverty mindset is comparing yourself to others. Just because someone else is able to take an exotic vacation doesn't mean your life is any less full or meaningful. Rather than feel jealous or sad, try to simply wish others well in their experiences. This is important...just wish them well. Then return to being grateful for the good things you have in your life. It's even possible to use the experience of others to motivate you. For instance, try to figure out what it is about your friend's vacation that has led you to feel a personal lack. Then use that insight to push yourself to obtain what it is you seek. Maybe you can't afford a major getaway, but that weekend trip to the lake could suffice.

These are just a few ideas to get you started on erasing your poverty mindset. It's really not that hard to change your thinking. Once you start, you'll start seeing things in a whole new light that can open up a world of possibilities.

In the personal life coaching membership, A Pilgrimage to Self, members, or Pilgrims, walk on the PATHS of Abundance and Mindset to connect to their authentic selves. It's not uncommon for Pilgrims to Discover their lives are filled with blessings, and they continue to attract more abundance. 

Spend some time thinking about your beliefs and listen to what you say to yourself and others. What's your mindset like? Are you open to attracting abundance?

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Cheers!

Lisa

 

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